How Do I Make Her See Me As A Sexual Partner?

ASK THE SHRINK FINAL FINAL

 

In today’s episode of Ask the Shrink, Dr. Aziz gives his opinion to one of our listeners that wants to know “Do you have to have a direct verbal approach with women if you want them to see you as a highly seductive person?

Do you have to talk about sex?  How direct do you have to be?

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Top 10 Tips For Confident Dating

Dating Tips

Discover The Key Secrets To Dating With Confidence So You Can Finally Stop Stressing And Start Enjoying Yourself.

 

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Learn how to:

  • Be able to be more free
  • Be bold
  • Approach people
  • Be more outgoing
  • Create attraction and excitement
  • Feel a sense that there is an endless opportunity for you to have the dating life you want.

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Boccherini Minuet
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Justin Crosby – Skrillit
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How Can I Find A Partner If I’m…

ASK THE SHRINK FINAL FINAL
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Early-Bird tickets on sale now for Dr. Aziz’s LIVE event – The Unlimited Dating Confidence Bootcamp! Click here to reserve your spot now.

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Intro:
DeepSound – Rain Clouds
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Ask The Shrink:
Boccherini Minuet
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Action Step:
Justin Crosby – Skrillit
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Outro:
Lokfield – Terra’s Theme Dubstep
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Highly Authentic, Highly Attractive with Jason Rogers Part 2

How to Be Highly Authentic and Highly Attractive

Last week’s episode explored the traits of highly successful people, what they do how they act.

Today we are jumping in for the second half of the interview with Jason to look closer at boldness.

How to bring more boldness in your life and what that really means.
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Show Notes

Jason Rogers helps men express their most confident, authentic selves in their social lives, dating lives, and careers. His system helps men unleash their “authentic superstar personality.” Jason is a speaker, a personal development coach for men, creator of peakunderpressure.com, and the Founder of PEAK Inc., the personal development brand dedicated to helping men grow every day. He’s also an author for The Good Men Project, a large online publication with over 5 million visitors per month.

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Intro:
DeepSound – Rain Clouds
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Ask The Shrink:
Boccherini Minuet
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Action Step:
Justin Crosby – Skrillit
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Outro:
Lokfield – Terra’s Theme Dubstep
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Highly Authentic, Highly Attractive with Jason Rogers Part 1

What if I told you that if you want to be attractive to others you have to start by looking in the mirror.

You don’t have to be who you think everyone else wants you to be, actually you will be left feeling empty.

If you want to have the traits of highly successful people the biggest area you need to work on is being yourself.

Being your most authentic self is the magnet that will draw others to you more than anything else.

Today we will be diving into how you can tap into ways that attract to other people by increasing the traits that are already there!
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Show Notes

Jason Rogers helps men express their most confident, authentic selves in their social lives, dating lives, and careers. His system helps men unleash their “authentic superstar personality.” Jason is a speaker, a personal development coach for men, creator of peakunderpressure.com, and the Founder of PEAK Inc., the personal development brand dedicated to helping men grow every day. He’s also an author for The Good Men Project, a large online publication with over 5 million visitors per month.

Music Credit

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Intro:
DeepSound – Rain Clouds
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Ask The Shrink:
Boccherini Minuet
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Action Step:
Justin Crosby – Skrillit
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Outro:
Lokfield – Terra’s Theme Dubstep
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Ask The Shrink: How To Have The Charisma Of Will Smith?

ASK THE SHRINK FINAL FINAL

On today’s episode of Ask the Shrink we have an awesome question from one of listeners involving the charisma and Will Smith.

Can I observe and emulate the charisma from Will Smith?

Listen to Dr. Aziz tackle this question of how modeling is hands down one of the fastest ways to learn anything and charisma is a skill you can learn!

How To Instantly Become 10x More Attractive

How to Be 10x More Attractive

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Ask The Shrink:
Boccherini Minuet
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Action Step:
Justin Crosby – Skrillit
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Outro:
Lokfield – Terra’s Theme Dubstep
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I Am A Social Person

Social Person

Your Identity Is Made Up of Over a Million” I AM” statements.

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Hey, everybody welcome to today’s episode of the show. I’m Dr. Aziz and if you want to go deeper and learn more and master your confidence, then you’re in the right place. This is the show for you if you want overcome shyness, social anxiety, self-doubt, insecurity anything that’s holding you back from being not just comfortable in your own skin and comfortable talking to people, connecting to people, reaching out to people, being more social, being confident really that’s what this show is all about. So, thanks for listening. If you want to go deeper go to shrinkfortheshyguy.com and you can get my e-book there, “5 Steps to Unleash Your Inner Confidence.” You can learn about the show, you can ask me questions, you can get the show notes, you can read the transcript. I don’t know why you’d ever want to do that but you could.

Good, so today we’re going to be getting into, “I am a social person.” That’s the name of the episode. What do I mean by that? By the way, I realized something. I was listening back to an episode or two I did a little while back and I realized that … to be honest, here’s what I thought as I was listening to it, I was like, “Man, there’s kind of a lot of filler,” like I feel like I could be distilling this down and making this more direct and to the point. And probably I thought, “It’s a podcast to show it’s going to be 30 minutes long.” Now I’m realizing, you know what? You’re busy. You don’t need to spend 30 minutes. What if I can condense this down into 15 or 20 minutes? Would that be more awesome? Now if that’s like, “No, I want 15 more minutes. It’s easy hammering on.” Then send in messages through the site shrinkfortheshyguy.com. But otherwise, I’m just going to go with my gut here and say “Look, can I condense this down into more details, less repetitive … sometimes I feel like I’d repeat the point like four or five times. Like dude, do we get it? Just move on to the next thing.” So, that’s what we’re going to do with this episode today and probably future episodes, here we go.

I am a social person. Now, when I say that or better yet when you hear me say that and you try it on for you. Just go ahead and try it on right now. Say out loud, “I am a social person.” Good, for real, say it out loud. Say it like you mean it, “I am a social person.” Now, say it like a Shakespearean actor, “I am a social person.” Regardless of how you say it, how does it feel when you say it? Does it feel accurate? Does it feel false? Does it sort of in the middle? Like if you could give it a number from 0 to a 100%, where 100%, it feels 100% true. Like, “Yes, that’s me” or zero is like not in a million years. I am social, where do you put yourself; 10%, 50 %, 80%? Notice that and notice if you have other stories that come in that say, “I’m not a social person.” And if so, what feels more true right now in this moment? Just be honest with yourself. You got to be honest with where we’re at.

So, what feels more true? I am an anxious person. I’m an introverted person. I am a socially anxious person. I’m awkward. I don’t like people. I don’t like small talk. I don’t like interacting. I prefer to be by myself. I don’t like doing this. I’m not that. What comes up for you? Notice that because that’s super important too because guess what we’re doing right now? We’re scratching at your identity. Your identity is how you see yourself and it’s made up of a million and one “I am” stories. I am tall. I am a man. I am fat. I am rich. I am poor. I am worthy. I’m not worthy. I deserve friends. I don’t deserve friends. I deserve an amazing relationship.

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How To Make An Executive Impression with Kara Ronin – Part 2

Executive Impressions

Do you struggle with how you are seen in the world of business?  Do you feel like you aren’t making the impact on people that you know you could?

It is possible to have other’s see the real you, all your skills, all the experience.

You can learn how to impact people so they want to talk to you, want to hire you, to see you as a leader and see you as the executive that you are!

Learn How To Make A Much More Powerful Impact-

  • In your networking meetings
  • In Your Career
  • In your Business

Take your career head on and leave the lasting impression you’ve always wanted people to see

Show Notes

Kara Ronin is an international business etiquette expert, keynote speaker and founder of Executive Impressions.  After seeing how much cultural intelligence and social skills helped her reach her career goals, Kara decided to help others learn and benefit from these skills through online and in-person training programs at Executive Impressions.
At Executive Impressions, Kara works with clients all around the world and from a variety of industries such as hospitality, finance, legal, education, mining and more. Her training programs focus on business etiquette, cross-cultural team development, leadership skills, body language, professional image, and netiquette.   You can reach out to her on social media here:
For Shrink for the Shy Guy listeners only Kara has a special discount to the first 15 people!

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Welcome to today’s episode of the show. Today we’re going to be talking more about how to make an executive impression. How to…I mean, well, the way that Kara has described while I’m interviewing it’s… someone walks into a room and you could just sense that they are powerful, they are a leader, they’re someone that people go to, they’re someone that people want to interact with, wants to hire, wants to be around and you might think, “Well, that’s certainly not me. I’m a guy who was in the corner or the woman who no one listens to or no one wants to follow but it’s not, that’s not who you are. That’s just a series of behaviors and patterns that you’re running that produce that result and if you change those behaviors and patterns then you get a different result and people will see you differently, you will see you differently over time and your entire career and all areas of your life will transform over time.

So last week was the first part of the interview, we’ve gotten some really good stuff about those initial impressions that you make from your attire, to your body posture and these really specific basic things. I highly recommend checking that out if you missed that first part, go back and listen to that, then come back to listen to this because we’re going to be getting the second half of the interview. We’re going to look at some super key elements of how to enter a room confidently especially networking kind of situation as well as what to say, if you’ve been in that situation where you walk into the room and there’s like 50 different people, and they’re all in these little pockets of people talking to each other or even 15 people and you have that moment of like, “Ah, what do I do?” How to do that so you’re not awkward, how to enter with confidence? How to make it happen and how to really make an impression and an executive impression that can be useful for your entire career for the rest of your life?

So this is a super value interview, thank you so much I’m glad that Kara, was able to join us for that and get ready to take some notes and apply this in your life. So without further ado, let’s get back into the second half of my interview with Kara Ronin. Okay so I’m standing tall, I’m walking in….would you have any tips for that? So how about that very first moment when I walk into the room and I don’t want to stand there with like a deer on the head lights, confused, uncertain, non-authoritative, don’t work or hire or buy from me-look on my face, so what could I do? What’s like the first action I could do upon entering the room in addition to standing tall and having good eye…but what’s something I could do as an alternative?

Kara:  Okay, the first thing when you walk into a room is you walk past the door way, take a couple of steps and just stop and just scan the room. Just look from left to right around the room and what you need to do here is to use the group you’re going to talk with first. And there is a technique to doing this, to choosing the group you’re going to talk with and again it comes back to reading the body language of the people in that group, So what you’d be looking at is a gap in between people or two people who are standing together but their shoulders and feet aren’t directly facing one another, they’re facing a little bit to the side. When you see body language like that you know that those people in that group are open to other people joining them.

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How To Make An Executive Impression with Kara Ronin – Part 1

Executive

Do you struggle with how you are seen in the world of business?  Do you feel like you aren’t making the impact on people that you know you could?

It is possible to have other’s see the real you, all your skills, all the experience.

You can learn how to impact people so they want to talk to you, want to hire you, to see you as a leader and see you as the executive that you are!

Learn How To Make A Much More Powerful Impact-

  • In your networking meetings
  • In Your Career
  • In your Business

Take your career head on and leave the lasting impression you’ve always wanted people to see

Show Notes

Kara Ronin is an international business etiquette expert, keynote speaker and founder of Executive Impressions.  After seeing how much cultural intelligence and social skills helped her reach her career goals, Kara decided to help others learn and benefit from these skills through online and in-person training programs at Executive Impressions.
At Executive Impressions, Kara works with clients all around the world and from a variety of industries such as hospitality, finance, legal, education, mining and more. Her training programs focus on business etiquette, cross-cultural team development, leadership skills, body language, professional image, and netiquette.   You can reach out to her on social media here:
For Shrink for the Shy Guy listeners only Kara has a special discount to the first 15 people!

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Hey, welcome today’s episode of the show. Today we’re going to be looking at the impression that you make on others and this is important. And now I know that we can actually get obsessed with this and we can be afraid of it. We can imagine that it’s not a good impression. We can assume that people won’t like us. We can have all these fears and doubts about how are we showing up and how people are going to receive us. And that could be in a work setting, romantic setting, social situation, dinner at a friend, friend of a friend’s house, it doesn’t matter, it can follow us everywhere we go.

So what we want to do is we want to keep working on the inner game to where we just don’t care so much about what other people think of us. We stand in our own reality where in my reality I know I’m valuable. I know I have a lot to bring. I know it doesn’t matter if my hair is perfect or if I have hair at all or if I’m totally in shape or I’m a little overweight or whatever it is or my socks aren’t perfect. We don’t want to buy into these fears but because we’re not perfect, people won’t love us, we won’t get the business and career opportunities we want.

So we want to work on the inner game to where we become totally solid in ourselves and my reality is stronger than some potential stranger’s judgment of me. And having said all of that, we want to learn how to play the game better. We want to learn how to make good impressions on people and guess what, your inner game could be 100% solid but if you show up to a networking event and people there are wearing suits and you got sweatpants and a stained t-shirt on, you might be feeling totally okay with yourself but you’re probably not going to get the responses that you want. You probably not get going to get people to want to take you seriously or invest in your business or fundraise you or to be your client or whatever it is you’re going for in that setting.

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